Saturday, December 7, 2013

Fall Photo Update



So writing isn't my forte, neither is taking pictures really... all around I'm not so great at this keeping people updated thing. Sorry! I promise I'm going to try and do better. Meanwhile, here is a little photographic update of my life from the past few months. Hope this helps paint a picture of what I've been up to out here! 


And yes this post did take a week to publish- loads of pictures + slow internet = a lot of learned patience. ;) 

Getting my hair braided- it took 13 hours! 

Monster box craft with kids I was babysitting. -too fun! 


LEarning about Bucket Filling :) 


Some kindergarten and first grade girls at recess, just being cute :) 

These are banana trees that are in my yard. You can also see my and my roommates' modes of transportation in the background. 

Just teachin and stuff

Learning with dry erase pockets from America
They LOVE them! 

I kept my braids in for 3 weeks. It then took 3 of us 3.5 hours to pull them out.
In the dark. The power of course came back on as soon as we finished. 

My favorite part of the week- Reading buddies with grade 5 every Friday :)

My kids performing at our Fall Festival. 

My kid's earned a pj party with good behavior. It was a VERY exciting day. 

Very excited for pajama day! 

Pajama day! 
Benjamin at Hope for Life :)

In an attempt to teach my students about Thanksgiving, we did this turkey hand print craft.
It's really hard when you're 5 years old, not American, and your teacher tries to tell you that a hand print looks like a turkey... cultural things can sometimes get lost in translation. Note the Turkey's face on the pinky...

Tuesday, November 5, 2013

Wish List

Ok ok ok. I've been getting requests for a wish list. I'm terrible at asking for things, and I'm terrible coming up with things to ask for. Anyway, here it is, a wish list! I made a list of things we would love to have in our classroom from America and a list of things I would love to have from America. :) 
If you would like to send anything, you can mail it here
Kelsey Merz
Kigali International Community School
B.P. 6558
Kigali, Rwanda

OR you can send it with my amazing friends who are coming to visit me for Christmas!! If you want to send it to an address in the states (much cheaper and easier), email me for the info! Kmerz529@gmail.com
Thank you in advance for your donations! 

Classroom Wish List
Small pencil sharpeners
water color paints
dry erase markers
colored pencils
Markers
Colored sharpie markers
Phonics/letter manipulatives 
kid size scissors (that actually cut)
erasers
3x5 index cards
glue sticks


Personal Wish List
Gluten free macaroni and cheese!
Any kind of gluten free cookies, crackers, snacks, etc
craisins
Peanutbutter MandMs
peanut butter
chocolate! 
Gluten free cereal
Pepperoni 
onion soup mix
any kind of soup mix (gluten free) 
drink mix powder (like crystal light) packets
chocolate chips
flip flops (size 8) - my only pair are falling apart :(
nail polish


I would also LOVE a Christmas card from YOU! 

THANK YOU THANK YOU!!! 

Sunday, October 6, 2013

Back at it again

And suddenly it's October and we've been in school for almost two months?! Amazing how time flies when you're loving life. This past two months has been pretty busy and exciting, here is a little update on what's been going on out here in Kigali...

School started up, I have a rambunctious group of kindergarteners; 5 girls, and ELEVEN boys! Being that it's my second year of teaching, the beginning of the year has come with some surprises. I'm able to more easily deal with problems in the classroom. I feel much more confident in my ability of teaching and predicting how students will do learning certain skills. I'm amazed at how YOUNG my kids are in September. It's so easy to forget how much these kids grow in a year. I left a mature group of 6 year olds in May, and now I'm starting with a very young group of 5 year olds. But still, they melt my heart with their adorableness (probably not a word, but I think kindergarten teachers should be able to use it).
Last year my class was mostly girls, this year they are mostly boys. It's remarkable the difference that is made in a class when the majority of the group is one gender. I have yet to have to talk to them about tattling on each other, but I spend the majority of the day saying the following, "Keep your hands to yourself," "No you can't jump off the ledge" "you need to apologize to your friend for pushing/kicking/poking/hurting them." "keep your hands to yourself!" "Let go of your friend"
Just the other day for the 3rd time this month, I had a student leave school to go get stitches. Not to mention a 4th student who came the first day of school with stitches in his head. Boys....

Outside of school, my "extra curricular activities" have are up and running. This weekend we had our first Wyldlife Club. Last year I was a Younglife leader, this year I am focusing on another section of younglife- "Wyldlife" for middle schoolers. We've got a great group of kids, I'm excited to invest in their lives this year.
It's been wonderful to be back visiting the littles at Home of Hope orphanage. I'm amazed at how much some of the toddlers grew in just 2 months this summer! It's been a joy to be able to go and see them realize I'm back after and still going to be around.
This quarter I started teaching swim lessons after school! Its been interesting finding ways to teach kids to swim with no equipment, but it's been really fun!

Last month I had my first (and hopefully last!) moto accident on my scooter. Long story show, I collided with a car that turned in front of me. Accidents are funny, I knew what was going to happen right before we hit. I could see the whole scene before it even occurred. We hit, I flew off. I don't remember exactly how I landed, but I stood up right away. I didn't hit my head, I didn't bleed at all, I didn't break anything. Praise the Lord! I did however have some very colorful bruises all down my right leg. It was pretty swollen for a few days and some bruises didn't even show up until the swelling went down. Almost a month later I'm all healed though!
But back to the scene of the crime, when accidents happen here, the reaction is a bit different than in the states. In America, if there's an accident, a few people might pull over to help and call 911, then a lot of people drive by slowly. In Rwanda, everyone shows up from everywhere and they all try to help at once. I had many people trying to take my helmet off, pick up my scooter, check out my scratches, see if I was ok. Not to mention the hundred or so people that had gathered around to see what happened to the Mazungu (white person) girl. Accidents cause a huge scene. Luckily, I was fine and my roommates came pretty quickly to pick me up. No one wanted to leave until they could see that I was leaving with friends.
Here's a picture of my leg the day after the accident...



And here are some pictures of my adorable class!! 

Door to the classroom. "Monkeying around in Kindergarten"







Saturday, August 17, 2013

Summertime Stateside

Hello all!
Thought I'd give a little summer update. :)
Returning back to the states at the end of May was an exciting time! Having never been away from home this long before, I was very ready to spend the summer with my family and friends. :)
This summer was full of wonderful people, beautiful God-glorifying weddings, air conditioning, CHEESE, ice cream, fast internet, travel, and overall great memories with friends and family.
Highlights of the summer include:
-Standing in my dear friends Sarah and Justin's wedding on the shore of Lake Michigan in beautiful Frankfort. Easily the most beautiful thing I had ever seen. That is until 2 weeks later...
-Flying to Louisiana and standing in my dear friend, Kendall's wedding. Now tying for the most beautiful thing I've ever seen. Both weddings were so incredibly glorifying to our Lord and some of the strongest love I've ever been blessed to witness.
-Taking day trips to visit friends around the state. Also friends taking day trips to visit me in Clarkston.
-Getting a voucher for taking a later flight home from Louisiana and using it to get a free flight out to Colorado to visit my favorite person in the world aka my brother, Todd.
-Being incredibly blessed with donations from family, friends, acquaintances, and even strangers. (God is amazing!)
- Eating cheese every single day
- Eating ice cream most days too
- Soaking up summer time fun in my hometown with my parents
-Overall just being in the same timezone as loved ones, having the ability to immediately contact them, or even see and spend time with them.


It was also full of some new challenges. While I have obviously spent the majority of my life in America, there were some strange feelings that came with familiar places. I found myself pretty overwhelmed in any store I went it, to the point where I'd get head aches from how largely stocked each shelf and wall was. I also found myself unusually shocked at some of the lifestyles I saw in my home country. Not that I saw anything this summer that I hadn't seen before, it just seemed to come from a new perspective after living in a third world country for a year. At one point I even had a complete meltdown over my frustration with the fact that every single person around me had a smart phone, not because I want one but because I DON'T want one. Reverse culture shock is a funny thing.
Still all in all it was a refreshing time to restore my energy for my new year here in Rwanda. While I felt ready and excited to return here, I still had some pretty difficult good byes in the days leading up to flying out of DTW. Goodbyes have to be one of my most hated activities. The good news however is that despite the hard goodbyes, I was flying in to a country full of joyful hellos. It felt great to by flying "home" to a place on the opposite side of the world that was full of familiar people, places, and the majority of my possessions. It feels great to be back! I'm excited to see how God will work in my life here this year and in the world around me. :)

Tuesday, July 2, 2013

Joys!

In 2009 I started a "Joy Book" where I have had friends fill pages of lists of things that bring them joy. I made my list in the back of the book. In May (while proctoring an SAT exam for high schoolers all day one Saturday) I started adding to the list and then quickly decided I had better just make a list in my journal because it would take up too much space in my joy book. So I thought I'd share my "Rwandan Joys" list here.


In no particular order...
-My kindergarteners
-The children at Home of Hope Orphanage
-The street boys at the Hope for Life home
-The neighbor children at Hope for Life
-The thousands of hills in this country
-Younglife
-The Younglife campaigners kids
-Body and Soul weekly work out classes
-Worshiping with my staff
-Supportive classroom parents
-Seeing baby feet sticking out the sides of mothers walking down the street (because all babies here ride piggy-back and are tied on to their mothers by fabric)
-The smell of the rain
-African fabric
-Watching rain storms come across the city
-Getting minutes on my phone by purchasing airtime from the back of a motorcycle
-The milk gate- my neighbor 3 houses down sells milk from their house. We call it the milk gate- you just bring a container and they fill it with fresh milk for very cheap.
 -Living only a few houses down from my best friend and her husband
-Themed parties with my American friends
-Making food from scratch
-Power outages
-Making do with what I have
- Rwandan bananas
-Rwandan eggs
-Traveling out of the city
- "Nta kibazo" (it means no worries)
-Shopping at the market
-Constantly hearing different languages
-Being on a bus and buying grilled corn through the window.
-Hearing someone say "thank you too" when I say thank you.
-Sleeping in a hammock while traveling
-Driving around town on my scooty pep scooter
- Being forced to get creative with a lack of materials
- Seeing my students' creativity
- Getting paychecks from God
-Living without a TV
-Shopping at the market
-Seeing people carry very large items (like furniture) on their heads and walk down the street

And the list could go on and on! These are just a few. : )


Wednesday, April 17, 2013

Differences

It's hard to believe I have already been here for over 8 months! I've really grown to love this country, the incredible school I work at, the precious children I get to teach everyday, and overall just the lifestyle. I've really gotten pretty used to the way things work around here, but I thought it would be interesting to share some of the things that are just a little bit different....

Cell phones: These are all prepaid. They call it "airtime" when you put money on your phone. And this is how it works: it always costs money to make a phone call but its pretty cheap and sending text messages is even cheaper. When you run out of money on your phone, you go and find and "mtn guy" as we call them. "MTN guys" are people who stand around in bright yellow MTN vests (MTN is the phone and internet company). You give them how ever much money you want on your phone (I usually buy $8 worth at a time and it lasts me about 3 weeks!) and they give you card with that amount on it. Then you scratch off the card to reveal a number. You then type this number into your phone and voilà! Then you have airtime and can freely make phone calls and send texts. :)

Internet: Works similarly to airtime. My housemates and I get internet via a USB stick. The stick has a sim card in it. Each month we buy airtime from the MTN guys and put it in the sim card then in the stick. When you want to get online, you put the stick in your computer and connect (then it's similar to 1990's dial up).

Electricity: Also prepaid. Every house has a box outside that has a little screen telling you how many units of power you have left. When you run out of power units, you run out of power until you pay for more. To pay for more, you have to go to a little store and purchase it. They give you a little receipt with a number on it. You come home and type the number into the box and voilà again! You have power :)

Rain: It affects EVERYTHING. Probably only about 20% of the people here drive cars. Everyone else walks everywhere, drives a motorcycle, or rides on moto taxis, or even better- bike taxis. (I'll get to taxis next). So when it rains everything stops or at least slows down. It's not uncommon to find yourself stuck somewhere in a place full of people for extended periods of time when it rains.
This actually has been something that helped me to depend more on God. In the states, rain doesn't really stop or affect anyone's daily schedule. Rain just means you need to find a closer parking spot and carry an umbrella. Here rain means your whole life is put on hold and you can't go anywhere. Sometimes I think it's God telling me, no you don't need to be so busy, you need to stay home and spend time with me!

Motos: Motos, or moto taxis, are a pretty basic means of transportation here. There are guys everywhere in blue or green vests that drive motorcycles around and will take you places. You can go clear across the city for less than $2. And thats the most you'd ever pay. They even carry a helmet and make you wear it.
This was my main means of transport until about a week ago when I bought my own scooter! This is pretty exciting because it means I can go anywhere whenever I want without having to track down a moto. It also means I wear a helmet that only I wear and I'm in control of my motor vehicle. :)

Shopping: We don't have a walmart or a kroger or anything of the sort. But we DO have the market! Very cheap and very fresh produce! Second hand clothing! All that clothing that you send off to "charity." Well it gets sent here. I'm just waiting to find a tshirt or other item of clothing that I've sent to charity. Although it's not sold as cheap as a salvation army in the states. Its only slightly cheaper than it would be new.
There are also little grocery stores around the city. They're about the size of a drug store or 7-11. The funny thing about these stores is that they don't always have what you want in stock. In fact they could have something for one week and then you might not see it again for several months. That's just the way it is.

Water and Power: Don't count on it. You just never really know when either of these things can go out. Then you never know how long they'll be out. Literally as I write this the power is out. It went out at about noon and came back on around 4:30. Since then it's been on and off all night. Oh, it just came back on! Candles and head lamps are essential here.... and power's out again.
The power being out also doesn't mean we get to cancel or go home early from school. It just means you always have to be prepared with making copies ahead of time and having back up plan for anytime you want to use your projector.

Other cultural norms...

It's not unusual to see two men hold hands while walking down the street. No, they're not gay, they're just friends. People here are very affectionate. Holding hands with the same sex= friends. BUT, holding hands with the opposite sex= very inappropriate. You never see couples holding hands, mostly just men.
Eating in public is also something you never see. In fact if someone sees you eating while your walking or driving, they might think you are homeless. Obviously you don't have a table to sit and eat at.
Raising you eyebrows= yes. This is actually a really convenient nonverbal communication gesture as a teacher. When kids ask me if they can go to the bathroom while I'm teaching, I don't even have to stop talking, I just raise my eyebrows at them they know!

Well this has gotten long. But there you have some fun new facts about Rwanda. This is my life and I love it. :)


...in other random news. Today at elementary chapel my class lead elementary in the song "God is so good." I had them sing it in as many languages as we could, we sang it in 7 languages, English, Kinyarwanda, Swahili, Spanish, French, Russian, and Korean. Pretty. Cool.

Sunday, March 17, 2013

A Question We Can't Shave for Later

Oh hello there! We mustache you a question.... 
...Miss Merz needs about $1200 to finish her year of living here in
Kigali with us. We really like having her here teaching us!
 So the question we mustache you is;
 Would be willing to donate her and support her?? 

Please?

Tuesday, February 26, 2013

Happy birthday Momma!

This is a special birthday message to my mom!
I also thought people might enjoy seeing this video of my kids, some speaking their native languages :)

Wednesday, February 6, 2013

Puke and Prayer

Today one of my students puked in the middle of class. Welcome to kindergarten, the land of bodily fluids. I've been in a classroom when a kid throws up, it's always interesting to see how the teacher reacts and how the students react. Only this time, I was the teacher. I told the sick child to go strait to the bathroom, then looked around the room to find the least concerned looking student and sent her to the office to get some help. I told the rest of the students to go to the carpet and sit down. Then I assessed their reactions, they had all been talking to me (all at the same time of course) through out my process of handling the situation, but I of course didn't hear what they were saying until now. Finally when I started listening I realized they were asking me if they could pray for the sick student. "Miss Merz we need to pray for her!" "I already did pray for her." "I did too!" "I prayed that God would heal her" One even said "I already prayed that no one else would throw up!"
I was blown away that these 5 year children were not only not completely disgusted, laughing at the sick kid, saying "eeww" or "Gross", or reacting in any other inappropriate manner. They just were so concerned for the wellbeing of their peer and all they wanted to do was pray for her.
These kids never cease to amaze me.

Sunday, February 3, 2013

Jeremiah 29:11

I've been in Rwanda for over 6 months now! One might say I'm over halfway through my time here. Well, I am over halfway through THIS year, but I'm not halfway through my time here. After a lot of time and thought and a LOT of prayer I have made a decision to commit to one more school year of teaching kindergarten here. This was not an easy choice, but through prayer and discussion, God has really shown me that this is what I am meant to do next year and where I am supposed to be. "Now Kelsey, how do you really know that next year will just as wonderful and you won't miss your friends and family like crazy?" Well I don't. I don't know what is in store for next year. I AM going to miss my friends and family like crazy. In fact I have a very hard time imagining being away from them for yet another year. And in fact, I don't know how I will afford teaching for another year without pay. But guess what... it's ok. God says I don't need to know what's coming, I don't need to stress about how I'll survive another year away from loved ones, I don't need to lose sleep over where money will come from to support another year, and I don't need to worry about it! Even saying this isn't easy. I don't know what another year in Africa will bring, but God does! The one who created me and everyone and everything knows! And He has a plan, not just a plan but THE BEST plan for my life. He knows the struggles I'll go through, HE will provide for me, HE will provide peace for my family at home in the states, HE will write my paychecks, HE will bring great things and lead me to further His kingdom. Which is really all I want to do!
We have a new superintendent/director for our school next year. She already is working at our school now, but will be taking this new position in the fall. She has been meeting with all the returning teachers to discuss the changes that are to be implemented next year. Before my meeting with her I was talking to a friend about what she might discuss in the meeting. My friend who already knew the new plans for next year mentioned that she had reviewed each teacher's prep time and there would be some big changes coming in that area. I also recently had received an email from a parent who's also on the school board. In the email she told me that at their last meeting they had looked at the number of "face time minutes" each teacher spent with their students. I was the "clear winner" with 500 more minutes a week with students then the top number for any secondary teacher.
So before even going in to my meeting with our new director, I was already excited (beyond excited really). I had no clue what changes she was making for next year or what she was doing about this new discovery of my work time. I didn't know anything about her plan, but I knew it would be good. I just trusted that she would make things better for next year.
Why can't we have that same kind of trust for the Lord's plan for us? If I can be "beyond excited" for someone's plans for me next year without knowing what they are, why can't I do the same for God's plans? He created me, He can give me anything I need if I follow Him. He wants to give me the best life possible if I let Him. But, somehow I'm not always beyond excited for His plans for my future, not in the same way I am for my school director's plans. It's funny how we can trust a person so easily and yet still question whether God really knows what He's doing. Of course He knows what He's doing!
I'm incredibly humbled by how much God has already revealed himself to me this year, how much He has provided for me, how much He has shown me of what He can do.
I do still have concerns of being away from home for another year, but one thing I know is that when God leads you somewhere, He doesn't just leave you there. I know He will provide for me just as He has been this whole year. And I know that with His plans, and my life in His hands, I have nothing to worry about.
God is so GOOD! (At this point, my students would start singing "Our God is an Awesome God") :)

Thursday, January 17, 2013

Christmas break


(Note- This blog was written about a week and a half ago, but it's taken this long to upload the pictures! )



Dec 19- Last day of school, my kindergarteners had their first ever class party! This was a pretty big deal. We have yet to really celebrate any holidays at school, halloween and Thanksgiving are American holidays (my kids are from 9 different countries). So finally we were able to have a class party and celebrate Christmas! I had some wonderful moms come in and lead crafts, play games, read stories, sing songs, serve food, and we ended the day with a movie. Exhausting day, but the kids had a blast! I can't tell you how many times I heard them say things like "this is the best day ever!" or "this is the best party of my life!"
It's funny the things you forget about that are so exciting the first time. This is the best part of teaching kindergarten.














Dec 21- Acts 20:35 tells us it's a greater blessing to give than it is to receive. While I may not have much money to give, over Christmas break, I was rich in time to give and I was blessed with some great opportunities to spend my time serving. Today I went to work with my dear friend, Torey. Torey works at a home for street boys. We went out to the home and visited with the boys who were still there for Christmas. The ones who had family members to be with, went home for Christmas, but there were still about 6 older boys who remained in the home for the holiday. After they had finished their morning chores, Torey gathered the boys together and told explained to them that was almost Christmas, and at Christmas time, families get together and give each other gifts. She told them that they were a family and they wanted to get them each a new pair of shoes for Christmas. So they were going to go down to the market and each boy could pick out a new pair of shoes that they liked. What a blessing it was for me to take these boys and help them find shoes that fit them and ones they liked. It was incredibly humbling to see the joy these young men had just from getting a new pair of shoes- something so simple and regular to americans, but so rare and special to these boys!
This afternoon, Torey and I were blessed with a chance to serve a wonderful family in our community. This family has 6 kids- 2 teenage girls, 2 boys ages 5 and 6, and 2 Rwandan babies whom they are currently fostering, a 11 month old girl, and a 7 month old boy. The parents took the older girls Christmas shopping while we spent the afternoon with the boys and the babies. I'm thankful there were 2 of us to keep up with the energy of these spunky and precious boys and the sweet babies.







Dec 25- Christmas day! Quite a bit different in Africa, than it is in America. Christmas here means going to church, being excited and full of joy for the birth of our savior, and maybe sharing a special meal with family and friends, and MAYBE exchanging gifts. Of course there were gifts exchanged from western families, but I learned from many Rwandans that giving or receiving gifts was definitely not expected on Christmas day. "Why would I need someone to give me things to celebrate Jesus's birth, it's His birthday, not mine."
I spent the day attending church and sharing meals with friends from school. It was a difficult day to be away from my family, but extremely interesting and humbling to see how others celebrated it.




Dec 26- Jan 1 - Trip to Uganda!
This week I traveled around Uganda with a few teacher friends from school. We left early on the 26th and took a 15 hour bus trip to Jinja. We spent a few days there, relaxing, enjoying the beautiful area, watching monkeys swing around on the trees at our hostel, oh and rafting grade 5 rapids down the Nile River! I'm going to try to post some pictures of this, but you can take my word for it when I say it was simply awesome. :)
Next we traveled down to Kampala- the capital of Uganda. They had a movie theater and a mall! It was almost like being in the states again. After spending some time there, we took a 7 hour extremely bumpy bus trip to Lake Bunyonyi. My roommate, Jodi and I sat in the back row of the bus and literally bounced up and down the entire ride. I wondered if this is how babies feel when you're hold them and bouncing them up and down... I suppose it was kind of soothing, but also a little nauseating... maybe this is why babies spit up all the time.
Anyway, something fun about taking bus rides through Uganda is what happens with the bus stops (which for some reason happens quite often). When the bus pulls over for even just a minute, it gets bombarded by people holding up fruit, corn, chapattis (similar to tortillas), and brochettes (meat kabobs). They make this food and then try to sell it to passer-byers. You can just lean out your window and buy a banana without even leaving your bus seat. It really brings a new meaning to "fast food."
Uganda was a beautiful country to visit! It was really fun to travel, but I was ready to be back in Kigali. For one thing, I was ready to get home and take a shower. Due to a lack of warm water and towel, I had only taken one shower during my trip/ I know- gross, but hey, I live in Africa! But it gets worse, we came home to find that the water was out at our house (for various reasons, this just happens sometimes). I was able to take one bucket shower the next day at my dear friend Kerry's house, but even they were having water problems. Well after a lot of strange issues with our tank, phone calls to the landlord, and workers in our yard, we now have running water again. Wahoo- I have taken 3 showers now in the course of 2 weeks.

This is Africa, folks. ...and I wouldn't trade my experiences here for anything.


I'm the one in front in the pink helmet :)